Your Estate Plan May Be Complete—But Can Your Family Access Your Digital Life?

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From family photographs to Facebook accounts, here’s why digital estate planning matters more than ever.

By Sara Barnett, Esq. | Spragins, Barnett & Cobb, PLC

Imagine losing your mother and realizing that hundreds of family photographs—the last Christmas together, pictures of the grandchildren, family vacations, and everyday moments you never thought to save—are stored on her phone.

You have the phone. You just don’t know the passcode.

Or perhaps your father has passed away, but his Facebook page is still active. Months later, friends who haven’t heard the news continue posting “Happy Birthday!” on his timeline. You want to memorialize or close his account, but you have no idea how to do it.

Maybe your spouse handled all the household finances online. Now you’re trying to figure out which bills are on automatic payment, where the insurance policies are stored, and how to access the email account where all the financial statements arrive.

Or perhaps your loved one is still living but has developed dementia and can no longer remember the passwords needed to manage their own affairs.

These aren’t unusual situations anymore. They’re increasingly common problems for families trying to manage a loved one’s affairs during an already difficult time.

The information may be right there, sitting on a phone or computer that the family physically possesses but cannot access.

Estate Planning Has Changed. Has Your Estate Plan Kept Up?

When we think about estate planning, we usually think about wills, trusts, powers of attorney, bank accounts, and real estate. But think about how much of your life now exists online.

Your photographs may be stored in iCloud. Your bills and bank statements may arrive by email. Your passwords may be saved on your phone. Your tax returns may be on your computer. Even your social media accounts may hold years of family memories.

Nearly all of it is protected by passwords, passcodes, and security measures designed to keep other people out. Those protections are wonderful while we’re living. But after someone dies—or becomes incapacitated—they can create enormous challenges for the very people we trust to handle our affairs.

Being named as someone’s executor, trustee, or agent under a power of attorney does not automatically give you the ability to unlock their phone, access their email, or retrieve their online accounts.

Your Phone Has Become the Key to Almost Everything

We use smartphones to access bank accounts, approve transactions, retrieve email, pay bills, and communicate with family. Even with a password, many services require a second verification step—such as a text message, notification, authenticator app, or passkey.

These safeguards are valuable, but they can become obstacles if a trusted person needs to manage your affairs and cannot unlock your phone. Legal authority and actual access are two different things.

Don’t Forget About Your Email

Your email may be almost as important as your phone. Password-reset links, verification codes, financial statements, insurance records, and tax documents may all be delivered there. Without access to email, family members may struggle even to identify accounts.

Identify your primary email address, review your recovery methods, and consider what arrangements would help an authorized fiduciary obtain needed records. Google users can also review Inactive Account Manager, which can share selected data after a designated period of inactivity; it does not simply provide someone your Gmail sign-in credentials.

What About Apple Legacy Contact?

Apple’s Legacy Contact feature allows you to name someone who can request certain data from your Apple Account after your death, using an access key and a death certificate. On an iPhone, look under Settings → your name → Sign-In & Security → Legacy Contact (the menu may change).

An important distinction: Apple Legacy Contact does NOT unlock the physical iPhone or reveal passwords and passkeys stored in iCloud Keychain. Separate, secure arrangements are needed if you want a trusted person to be able to access the device itself.

Your Computer May Be Just as Important

A laptop or desktop may contain years of tax returns, family photographs, financial documents, and personal records. Computer login passwords may not be enough: encrypted Windows devices may require a BitLocker recovery key, and Macs using FileVault may require an appropriate recovery method. External drives and cloud-storage accounts can have separate protections.

Include computers, tablets, backup drives, and secure recovery arrangements in your digital estate plan. Employer-owned computers and work accounts may have separate rules and should not be treated like personal property.

What Does Tennessee Law Say?

Tennessee has adopted the Revised Uniform Fiduciary Access to Digital Assets Act, Tenn. Code Ann. §§ 35-8-101 et seq. It provides a framework for certain fiduciaries—including personal representatives, trustees, and agents under powers of attorney—to seek access to digital assets, subject to applicable conditions and limitations.

Express consent may be needed for disclosure of the content of electronic communications, such as the substance of emails. Certain instructions made through a provider’s online tool may also take priority over directions in a will or trust. Even with appropriately drafted documents, an account provider may require documentation and may furnish copies of records rather than direct account access.

That is why a good digital estate plan addresses both legal authority and the practical steps needed to locate and protect information.

Get Your Digital Ducks in a Row!

The good news? You don’t have to be a technology expert. A little preparation now can help your family preserve memories and manage important affairs when the time comes.

Make a list of important online accounts. Include email, banking, investments, insurance, social media, photo storage, and other accounts your family should know exist. Do not put passwords on the list.
Make a secure plan for access to your phone. Choose a trusted person and arrange for that person to find the passcode when legally appropriate. Do not write the passcode in your estate planning notebook.
Set up Apple Legacy Contact. If you use Apple, designate someone to request eligible account data after death. Remember that this does not unlock your iPhone.
Decide what should happen to your Facebook account. Review memorialization and deletion preferences, including whether you want a legacy contact. Other social platforms may offer different options.
Protect access to your email. Identify your primary email and recovery methods. For Gmail, consider reviewing Google Inactive Account Manager.
Organize passwords and recovery instructions. Consider a reputable password manager or other secure arrangement. Make sure an appropriately authorized person knows how to locate the necessary instructions.
Remember computers, tablets, and backups. Account for computer login information, encryption recovery keys, external hard drives, and cloud storage.
Plan for two-factor authentication. Identify authenticator apps, passkeys, recovery codes, and devices that may be required for important accounts.
Store sensitive information securely. Avoid keeping passwords, passcodes, and recovery keys in a will, ordinary email, or an unsecured binder. Keep them protected and accessible only to the right people.
Review your estate planning documents. Ask whether your will, trust, and powers of attorney adequately address digital assets, electronic communications, and fiduciary authority during incapacity and after death.

One Last Thing: Keep Your Ducks in a Row!

You don’t have to accomplish everything in one afternoon. Start with your phone, your primary email account, and your family photographs, and work through the remaining items. Review the plan at least once a year, and whenever you change phones, accounts, passwords, or trusted contacts.

You can download our helpful checklist here:

Getting your digital ducks in a row is one more way to make things easier for the people you love. Your digital life deserves a plan, too.

At Spragins, Barnett & Cobb, PLC, we help individuals and families in Jackson and throughout West Tennessee plan for the future. Contact our office if you would like to create or update an estate plan that addresses both traditional and digital assets.

Sara Barnett is an estate planning attorney with Spragins, Barnett & Cobb, PLC, in Jackson, Tennessee. Her practice includes wills, trusts, powers of attorney, probate, conservatorships, and elder law.